“Actions speak louder than words, but actions are deafened by results.”
-Coach Absolution
“I reached out to Ron because I was struggling with work and home stress, and finally admitted that something had to change. I contacted a few different coaches, but at first was not that serious about my pursuit. My attitude changed after my first session with Ron...”
Will Jones
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Student services
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"Helios" - $10,000
50 one-on-one, In-person, 2+ hr conversations
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"Bring the Day" - $2,000
10 one-on-one, In-person, 2+ hr conversations
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"Presence" - $300
1 one-on-one, In-person, 2+ hr conversation
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Business/Organization and High Performance Coaching
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"The New Sun" - $80,000
50 one-on-one, In-person, 2+ hr conversation
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"Create" - $2,000
1 one-on-one, In-person, 2+ hr conversation
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"Sunflare" - Negotiated
Public speaking for your company, organization, or event
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When purchasing a project, you’re purchasing a number of sessions to be used by you at will. When you want to use a session, reach out to me and we’ll schedule it.
All fees are submitted in full prior to the first conversation. There are no refunds. This is full commitment territory. If you decide to back out of a project, the entirety of your fee will instead be donated randomly to the students of UF.
“…In a short time, I realized that I was going to get from him what I truly needed: perspective, support, and accountability. He made it clear early and often that there were solutions to all of my different concerns, anxieties, and problems, and that I had the power to create those solutions. He also made it clear immediately that these solutions would require me to put in work, but he would guide me, motivate me, and help hold me accountable along the way if I was willing to do that work. For me, that was perfect…”
Will Jones
The essence of strength is presence
That’s why I require my conversations in-person. I want full presence from both of us. There’s nothing more invigorating to me than an exchange of the spirit through conversation, and I will accept no less than your full presence.
My Coaching requires 4 agreements I refer to as “Pillars".
If these pillars are upheld, our conversations will be the most important of your life.
The 1st Pillar: The Pillar of Truth
We agree to be 100% honest with each other. This doesn't mean you HAVE to tell me something you don't want to, but it does require that when you speak, you speak through your fear and from your heart and soul. Any deviation from the truth, even an exaggeration, will make the direction we take inaccurate for what you're really looking for. To do so would be a waste of our collective time. My time is precious to me, and how precious your time (and your money) is to you is measured by how committed you choose to be here and now.
The 2nd Pillar: The Pillar of Courage
While being coached, we're not friends. If anyone comes to me for a coaching conversation seeking sympathy, they won't find it. Not because I'm unsympathetic (I’m actually enormously compassionate), but because sympathy will alter my ability to help you. Sympathy will guarantee that you fail. Sympathy is a weakness I will not indulge in, and I will have failed you in doing so. It takes courage to reach out, and you have already shown the courage to do so, which means you have the courage to move beyond the need for sympathy. You already have enough potential to be better and happy. Now comes the part where you earn it. Nothing in life is deserved. Not happiness, or love, or even life itself. But it is earned. To accept this pillar is to accept the responsibility to earn it. A fearful endeavor. That's why it's a courageous one.
The 3rd Pillar: The Pillar of Motion
These conversations will work best if we're both focused on a central goal, and always marching for it. However distractions are things that steer us away from our goals. For our conversations to work, it will require you to know your distractions and keep them in check or remove them entirely. That will see us to success quickly and you where you want to be. Embody Inertia. Be an object in motion that will stay in motion by not letting any force act upon you.
The 4th Pillar: The Pillar of Names
The most important pillar, being that it's you. You're the pillar. That pillar needs to be strong, but it's only strong when you're free to be that strong. I require that our conversations are a choice that you have made for yourself. If you are doing this because you believe you're supposed to, or because someone else feels you “should”, then I will reject you because it will not work. It has to be you that decides to move forward, and your word is the only word I'll accept on the matter. Not your family's, partner's, friend's, or society's expectations of you. You don't HAVE to do anything. We only work together if you as an entity of your clarity, freedom, and strength have chosen so.
At times, my coaching can be very harsh.
I’m not a therapist. I’m not here to make you feel comfortable.
If the seeds of trees only grew in soil they were comfortable with, there would be no trees.
given the choice between comfort and growth, which would you aim for?
I made my choice.
It’s time to choose who you want to be.
“…If you are serious about change, I could not recommend Ron enough. You do not even need to know what you want to change - he will help you discover that. Just be willing to be honest with yourself and with him and be willing to put in the work. He can help you clarify and create that change. On the other side of that commitment is greater clarity and presence, and a stronger and more courageous you.”